What makes me crazy about him and what drives me crazy about him. So apparently this is my own spin on a common theory. Apparently it works. Theory being that you make a list of the bad and good in a person and which ever one out weighs the other is how you decide to keep or not keep the relationship. I actually tried this for the first time seriously and it really assisted me in sorting my thoughts. We often as people spend so much time concentrating on the negative that we forget how much positive there actually is in a person. Many times the positives in a person out weigh the negatives by so much. So my list was the positive (what makes me crazy about him) or the negatives (what drives me crazy about him). My advice to people is to give this a try if you are in a relationship or dating someone. It will remind you as well why you fell for the person whether good or bad. Now in addition the other thing to look at is what you do to help or hurt what drives you crazy about the significant other. Chances are you will come to terms with some of your faults as well. I personally am women enough to say, I know I can be difficult, tuhhh I know how my mind can make me over analyze but at the same time, life is a work in progress.You live and hopefully you learn.
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